Weakest Mind; who to blame?

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Often we hear the stories of Girl being victimized by the rapist, man form, even extending to father raping the daughter, forget about neighbors, friends or acquaintance.

Did we ever look back what's there inside man? Men's mind? To those molester or a rapist, they maybe the strongest to hold and tie the hands and legs of a girl. They may be the strongest to tear the cloths, peel off them, or squeeze the mouth to keep it shut. Damn! they are too weak to even control their own desire, their urge, their mind. They would lose themselves in the desire of someone's body.

Who is to blame? Who is responsible for all the ugly things that is happening in our society.

1. Media: it's how media portray their products. It's time to think critically how media depicts sexuality. Including the daily TV shows and social media we use in daily basis. Everywhere certain percent of sexual content present. The very photo highlighted in this article does. Many of the people read just by seeing the photo thinking there might be interesting content. Not knowing what's the intention the writer have. Mass media and internet is one of the top cause.

2. Social interaction: the daily life of any person involves lot of interaction with people around. Often we make fun, tell dirty jokes, sexual talk, because that's where lot of people laugh out loud, lot of ears get concentrated. Many people will be against this saying "after all we are just talking not actually doing" I accept but lots of negative energy is gathered everytime there is talk of sex and f**ks. Many of my friends say, they heard the most from gossiping some talking all sort of sex bomb. So we know how we get victimized of our own way of talking. Start talking educational and ideas instead of shitty things.

3. Culture: taking advantage of relationship and culture has greater issue than anything else. Night hunting once a popular culture in the east has made people to believe that it's nothing unethical or unlawful but a culture. Although it's banned but in real people still do practice. Lot of teasing and mocking can be a source of sexual content.

4. Social Environment: towns have already become unsafe. Not everyone can walk wherever they want. There is danger to go out alone. People either get robbed their belongings or their body. It's high time to think we either need more police or good mentality.

5. Addictive/ Intoxicant substances: getting drunk, doping or abuse of drugs has lead to many illicit behavior of people. Some of them leading to get involved in physical violence involving rape and molestation.

6. Your choice: the most important point I want to focus. Your choice of social media, choice of TV shows, choice of words, choice of book you want to read, choice of movies you want to watch, choice of gossip. It all depends on what type of talk we want to hear and talk about. Often times we land in wrong circle of friends, or land up doing what is not meant to, which may have impact on us. It's all about the choice we make.

To become weak is completely our choice. It's neither by chance or by fate. It's by choice. So to become strong is a choice. We become strong by protecting when a girl is alone. We become strong when we prove of trusting someone is possible. We become strong by not raising hand on the weak one. We become strong by believing in one's mind with trust. We become strong be believing in true love.

#note
Sex education starts with knowledge, not with the talk of sex bomb. Sex education starts with good parenting and teachers not sexual talk.