Buddhistically flirting 

I was traveling from Pemathang to Samdrup Jongkhar.  Some how I was lucky to get the seat on engine box. (seat near the driver)  On the way the driver gave lift to a woman and she also took the seat beside me. Woman was dressed so nicely that driver started to adore her too much.
Woman, much in her charming culture, she started to reply to the questions that driver started to ask. Through their conversation I came to know that they are already known to each other.
The driver started to encourage the women saying "why don't you marry, you may be too late later."

The woman just smiles

He again said,  "You know what, life is too short, and there is very less time left to love"
Woman seem to care less about the driver's talk and said "I don't care about such things and I don't believe in it"
Ata driver wasn't giving it up just like that, he started to convince her even more in better way.  "You know, I have already had a conversation with an astrologer,  and found that our relationship would be the best combination."

He added "Don't you think life is all about what karma you have done in the past generations. Maybe we have karma to meet each other"
The woman laughingly said "Such Karma is all made by mind, there is no as such in real."
Ata driver driving so calmly on the rough road still tried on her by seeking help from a monk who was sitting on the first seat. He was busy on his Wechat talk. Still he managed to reply to Ata driver who was insistent on the point that karma is not made by mind constantly asked him "Lobey is it true that karma is made by mind? "

The monk replied so calmly "karma is not made by mind but suffering is made by mind." he started to explain futher that karma is always the reward of the act of past life and present activities will determine the next life
Ata driver was so happy that woman was accepting what the monk was explaining. He kept nodding and said to her "why don't we marry."

The woman still donot want to accept whatever the driver was telling, despite his support from a buddhist philosophical reasoning though she accepted what the monk said.

Lesson learned : This is why many people land up breaking up relationships, it's because many people misunderstand situations. Many people assume, many make up by their mind. That's where people land up destroying happiness. Suffering is all made by mind. Karma is the repurcursion of your act in present life and past life.

Note: Invest in accumulation of good karma creating beautiful mind to ward off suffering